solaris Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Give yourself the weekend to bitch and moan - chocolate and wine make excellent additions when taken in the company of friends (if your 18+ of course) - then get your hair done, get a mate to do your nails and step back into the new ex's presence looking your best! It's called just deserts! He obviously didn't deserve you! I hope you feel better soon - oh, and it sounds like the 'best mate' needs ex putting in front of it! How dare she do that to you! *gets mad on *Zetti*'s behalf* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zetti Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Give yourself the weekend to bitch and moan - chocolate and wine make excellent additions when taken in the company of friends (if your 18+ of course) - then get your hair done, get a mate to do your nails and step back into the new ex's presence looking your best! It's called just deserts! He obviously didn't deserve you! I hope you feel better soon - oh, and it sounds like the 'best mate' needs ex putting in front of it! How dare she do that to you! *gets mad on *Zetti*'s behalf* Thanks, I just needed to vent, he will come crawling back but it doesnt stop it hurting tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Bishop Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Zetti hes not worth it I know at the moment you feel angry but you will come through it stronger and far better for it as for your freind what friend ex with a capital E. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zetti Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Dont worry I am not going there again anyways, my ex best friend now as well. I need a clean slate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solaris Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Dont worry I am not going there again anyways, my ex best friend now as well. I need a clean slate! Sounds like you're doing the right thing...the hurt will just take time! *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel&kim Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 I'm so sorry to hear that Zetti. He doesn't deserve you, but that doesn't make it hurt any less. Clean slate sounds like a good idea, just wipe him away and on with your life! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rising-flame Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 given up skydiving guy. only spoke to him twice anyway. right, on thursday i was at one of the local schools as a company rep for their engineering club. I met a rep from anohter company, a guy who seemed quite nice. We swapped work emails and stuff for professional reasons. Then i convinced him to come to the city beer festival. After an hour we both left. Next day I received an email from him, i'd hoped to hear from him but had decided not to make the first move. Since friday, i've received 3 emails on my work account and 6 on my home account (we spent a fair bit of time yesterday emailing each other). But now i'm kinda mad at myself for allowing myself to get so excited when i check my emails, anticipating another one from him. He's gone away for the week so i won't hear anything from him till next weekend. But i'm still annoyed. He's probably after only one thing (just like my previous boyfriend) and even though i'm 26 i'm still really nervous about the idea. How do i tell if he is genuinly interested in me, and more importantly i'm worried that i'm completely misreading this and getting excited over nothing. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zetti Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 This might seem a bit weird but I met someone yesterday and it was weird because we connected but it still feels like I am betraying my ex which I know I shouldnt! Do you think I should go out with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rising-flame Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 Go for it. Your ex betrayed you, as did your so called best friend. Be careful it's not a rebound thing for the other guys sake, but if you connected it's definatly worth investigating. he he, no good at taking my own advice though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Bishop Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 Both of you just for the moment take a step back and think, Zetti you have come out of one relationship just keep it cashual about things let him know you would likle to g out but at the moment as friends explain you just want to take things slow at the moment. Rising flame You also take it easy just make sure he wants you and only you I know its easy for me to say yes I have been through it but I,m talking to you by expearance if he really wants you if you say no when or if he tries it on and he comexs back saying thats ok you will know your on the right track. Best of luck both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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