adellejefferiesxox Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 Hello there, I was just wondering if you guys could tell me about your attidues, vaules and beliefs about sex. Tell us about your first experience? please no graphic details, just your thoughts and feelings about that experience. How old were you, how old are you now? Do you wish you waited? what age should people be allowed to have sex? All sex questions answer here please lol. I realise this may be a touchy subject, sorry I dont mean to offend anyone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmasi Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 I'm 23, I haven't done it yet, and I don't intend to until I find someone I love and trust. My theory is that you shouldn't have sex with anyone who you wouldn't want to have a kid with, because accidents happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Lynd~ Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 ^Pretty much what Jem said except i'm 25.I wouldn't necessarily wait for marriage but i'd have to be with the person for a reasonable amount of time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 I was young when I began and I don't believe it has had any negative effects. It all depends on your maturity level I suppose, which is what I think now anyways compared to when i was younger and it was because of the pressure and expectation surrounding it I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bay girl Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 Well, i always wanted to wait until i found someone i really cared about. But in the end that didnt happen. Most of my friends started when they were 17, but i didnt until i was 21. Im 25 now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Tan Tan Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 In all honesty I lost mine when I was 16, to my ex's brother because he was there for me and well I was under the influence of drugs. Yes I do wish I had of waited, but then again I wouldn't have my gorgeous son. But I have my partner now and we are planning our life together. SO every experience always has a good and bad side to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rising-flame Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 I'm 26 and still haven't found someone. I agree with Emmassi about finding someone I love and trust. So nice to find out I'm not the only 21+ person out there who still hasn't done it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmasi Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 ^Ditto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adellejefferiesxox Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 Oh wow, I'm really surprised to hear 21+ havent done it yet. I'm 18 and yeah havent done it yet I feel much better now lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzannelgnz Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 I'm 19 (almost 20) and even before I became a christian( I've only been a christian for about 15 months), I had absolutely no intention of having sex before marriage. Ok, i'm not in a relationship but even if I was I know that I have to be with someone that accepts what I want to do and not place undued pressure on me. Lily- I honestly wouldn't worry, you'll know when the time is right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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