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JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Thank you Pembie and apologies for such a late reply!! I didn't mean to make it confusing to reply to me, often the way, but, it was the only way I could find to say what I needed to. Tom doesn't live in the UK usually ( though from here ) so it makes it impossible to do that very sadly. If he doesn't go back to his boyfriend, which he doesn't want to do, he'll be off working on a cruise ship about a year. I have a very horrible feeling I'm going to have to tell him.. if I do, I will post here of course! I'm not good ( clearly) at relationship stuff either but you reading and replying is perfect, so thank you again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pembie Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Well if you do tell him Don't panic and do it in a chilled out situation. That way you won't feel stressed out And at least you know that he doesn't want to go back to his boyfriend. The reason he has told you that might mean he likes you too maybe. Maybe if you tell him how you feel before he leaves it will give him time to think. Will you be in touch while his away on the cruise ship? Maybe you could go on a holiday on the same ship as Tom is working on No joking I expect it won't be as bad as you think it will be when you tell him Anyway good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Thank you again. I have told Tom. I've sent him a message on facebook. I can't actually stop crying with worry about his response , so thank you for saying it might not be so bad a reply. One thing I do know, with no question of doubt, is that he won't feel the same way, I just hope with my whole, entire heart he doesn't cut me off and/or it doesn't make it awful between us, which I fear it will, so very much. I will post again, if/when I hear from him. Edit: He has read it and I've just spent the past 40ish minutes crying with worry. I've also just seen he's out with his other very good friend for their birthday. So, I'd imagine - not wishing to flatter myself, in any way - that I'm possibly being talked about. I'll make a new post, whenever it is he replies.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Toms exact reply, he's just text me: "Hey..read your essay..chill,don't worry about it..it's fine ok...stop stressing and enjoy rest of your day ;o) x" I will be posting again , I have no doubt but for now - PHEW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pembie Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 That's great I told you it wouldn't be as bad as you thought it would be. Just see what happens from here, Main thing don't worry and act like you normally would. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Thank you SO much!!!! You're better at this than you think Pembie! I will totally do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pembie Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Oh yeah that's me the love doctor guru Not your worry u anything but I have been single for a long time!!!!!!!! But yeah let me know how you get on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackWilkins Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 You and me both! I have been for 11 years and counting.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pembie Posted July 17, 2014 Report Share Posted July 17, 2014 Oh well that may change for you soon Jack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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