That is a brilliant post Skykat. I have posted on many forums in the last few years and I can honestly say that BTTB is one of the nicest and friendliest. Some forums are really bitchy and pick on you if you don't say the 'right thing', or bully newbies, or simply ignore you etc. But I have not experienced any of that here. When I joined BTTB I was in a very upset and emotional state and did not expect to stay, and certainly did not expect the warm welcome I received [sorry, I can't remember who the welcomers were now]. I would hate it if BTTB became a bitchy, bullying forum so Skykat's words are very wise and timely and I hope everyone abides by them. I'm not meaning to boss people about, I am just writing from the heart.