~Zoe~ Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 ^ Thankyou the both of you for the advice, really appreciate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Zetti Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 ^ Thankyou the both of you for the advice, really appreciate it. You're welcome ... I mean even like I said ... I've told hardly anyone about my chest pains & anxiety because I'm so embarrassed by it. My mum did suggest going to the doctors but I'm terrified of going to the doctor ... even once before when I found a lump, I didn't want to go. But saying that, I do need to know what's going on because I know my body & I know that this isn't right. I don't feel healthy & I am generally scared & I know I stress a lot over literally everything. Gosh, I just seem to have so much to worry about ... a portfolio whih I need an A grade in, 2 assignment which I need an A grade in, a research task which I need a C grade in to manage to achieve an A overall ... I have uni to think about (student finance, the course, etc) & then of course guy trouble (my ex is getting married & it's been three years & I'm not over him yet he was the one who pushed me away ... I won't go into details on here but I don't mind talking about it so PM me) but I feel guilty. I talk to him literally everyday & he either: - ignores me - talks to me in general conversation - flirts with me & it's very frustrating to not know how he feels & he has no idea what he's doing to me. So yeah, I have loads to panic over which probably doesn't help. I just feel like I generally need to talk to someone about everything to be honest ... I went through that a few weeks ago and yesterday I bit the bullet and basically asked him what the hell is going on between us and now we are together. It wasnt easy for me to do that but I think if you ask him outright, at least you'll know the truth. And if you do need anyone to talk to. I am here for you That goes for anything you want to talk about (or rant) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Zetti Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 ^ Aww thank you honey That's very much appreciated. xxx No problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Zoe~ Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 ^ Thankyou the both of you for the advice, really appreciate it. You're welcome ... I mean even like I said ... I've told hardly anyone about my chest pains & anxiety because I'm so embarrassed by it. My mum did suggest going to the doctors but I'm terrified of going to the doctor ... even once before when I found a lump, I didn't want to go. But saying that, I do need to know what's going on because I know my body & I know that this isn't right. I don't feel healthy & I am generally scared & I know I stress a lot over literally everything. Gosh, I just seem to have so much to worry about ... a portfolio whih I need an A grade in, 2 assignment which I need an A grade in, a research task which I need a C grade in to manage to achieve an A overall ... I have uni to think about (student finance, the course, etc) & then of course guy trouble (my ex is getting married & it's been three years & I'm not over him yet he was the one who pushed me away ... I won't go into details on here but I don't mind talking about it so PM me) but I feel guilty. I talk to him literally everyday & he either: - ignores me - talks to me in general conversation - flirts with me & it's very frustrating to not know how he feels & he has no idea what he's doing to me. So yeah, I have loads to panic over which probably doesn't help. I just feel like I generally need to talk to someone about everything to be honest ... Sorry to hear that your under a lot of stress too. You should go and see a doctor if your unwell, even though your terrfied. There's only one Dr at my surgery who I can confide in with all my problems, feel comfortable enough to tell him everything thats bothering me, and he'll help, even though he's a male GP, he's helped me out with a lot of stuff - and still is even now, with me not being well. So it's good I have a proffessional like him, who I can trust and will listen. I had man trouble a few months back aswell, Jason. That's a long story, which I dont really want to go into basically - I've got feelings for him and he does'nt feel the same ect, but we've still got a really good friendship, and he helped me out on Saturday as he also suffers with anxiety. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Zetti Posted April 6, 2011 Report Share Posted April 6, 2011 ^^ If that is the case, steer clear, people in that situation only have drama included not happines Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Zetti Posted April 7, 2011 Report Share Posted April 7, 2011 Aww hunni. Trust issues are something that affects a lot of people. Hopefeully in time you will learn to trust people especially the ones closest to you *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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