Ok i dont want to sound mean here, but this guy sounds like a really nast piece of work. I mean where the hell does he get the nerve to say something like that to your mother? I hope she told him where to go! And as for your so-called-friend, it's really silly of her to BEG the guy to take her back and then take it out on you when things dont go her way. He's doing her a favour by not taking her back. You can only do so much. If she chooses to ignore you, why should you be ringing her every night? Neither of them should be treating you like that, and i hope you won't let them.
You dont need friends like that. And if she is gonna ignore you again, and go after this guy, maybe you should just step back and let her. As for when she comes back when it falls apart again, it's your call if you're gonna pick up the pieces. This time, i dont think anyone will blame you for not getting involved, or even walking away.
I know it sounds harsh but that's just what i think.
Thank you, I completely agree. My mum told him to get the hell away from me and herself and then went mental at his mum. Me and this friend just literally had a big row again and I told her I didn't want to be her friend, because when we're together it's always about her problems never about mine - that sounds selfish but it's true like my parents are seperatig and they both want custody of me but I can't talk about that with her because she's on about this lad. Urghh.
Thank you carmelle for your honest opinion.
Now after I made this thread depressing, I shall cheer it up-ish.
What is everyone doing?