The 'have a moan' thread

[valli]

Thank you. I really need support in times like this, I cried my eyes out when I lost my pet rabbits, so it'll be even worse when he dies.

[carmelle]

  valli said:

Thanks for your support guys

Now I'm sad again, because my grandfather is dying He's currently in hospital, but he's really sick and my father reckons he'll never come out of the hospital, meaning that he dies before he's healthy enough to come out. And it's really breaking my heart, because I always hoped he'd be alive for my wedding if I got married, but now it's not even the slightest possibility that he'll last that long

I'm really sorry to hear about your grandfather. Stay strong and know that we'll be thinking of you. *HUG*

[Barbara]

  valli said:

Now I'm sad again, because my grandfather is dying He's currently in hospital, but he's really sick and my father reckons he'll never come out of the hospital, meaning that he dies before he's healthy enough to come out. And it's really breaking my heart, because I always hoped he'd be alive for my wedding if I got married, but now it's not even the slightest possibility that he'll last that long

I'm so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Barbara]

I have to write a dissertation this year. And I'm stressing out about it. Everyone at school is talking about it, which isn't helping either. But now my family is asking all these questions and talking about it. I'm stressing out even more now and I really don't need that.

Stop harassing me, people! Yes, I'm doing ok. Yes, I'm almost done! But please, stop talking about it!

Not to mention, I have a lot of translations to make too.

[valli]

Thanks for all your support guys I went to see him today and I almost started to cry. He couldn't see me and he hardly heard what I was saying, so I had to yell It's just so sad seeing him like that

And Barbara, I know how you feel. I hate when people ask me if I'm fine. Of course I'm not fine! I don't have any friends, I spent the entire school prom sitting on a f****ing chair and nothing I say is interesting unless it's cruel gossip

[Barbara]

  valli said:

Thanks for all your support guys I went to see him today and I almost started to cry. He couldn't see me and he hardly heard what I was saying, so I had to yell It's just so sad seeing him like that

I remember when my granddad was in hospital. He always used to have a smile on his face and was happy to see us. But when he was sick, he didn't even recognize us anymore. He had a brain tumor.

  valli said:

And Barbara, I know how you feel. I hate when people ask me if I'm fine. Of course I'm not fine! I don't have any friends, I spent the entire school prom sitting on a f****ing chair and nothing I say is interesting unless it's cruel gossip

People suck sometimes. Maybe you should change school next year. You can make new friends there. I didn't have many friends in high school because I was too shy. I still am but less than before. I met some cool people at uni.

[valli]

  Barbara said:

  valli said:

And Barbara, I know how you feel. I hate when people ask me if I'm fine. Of course I'm not fine! I don't have any friends, I spent the entire school prom sitting on a f****ing chair and nothing I say is interesting unless it's cruel gossip

People suck sometimes. Maybe you should change school next year. You can make new friends there. I didn't have many friends in high school because I was too shy. I still am but less than before. I met some cool people at uni.

I'm changing school next year anyway, so it'll be good. But at the same time, when I changed school after 7th grade (in Norway we change school after 7th grade and after 10th grade) I thought it would be different. But it just got worse. Teenagers are jerks, at least the ones in my class

And I just found out today that my mom is getting married again And I don't really want her to. But I don't want to be the cruel kid who tells her that she can't get married...

[Barbara]

  valli said:

  Barbara said:

  valli said:

And Barbara, I know how you feel. I hate when people ask me if I'm fine. Of course I'm not fine! I don't have any friends, I spent the entire school prom sitting on a f****ing chair and nothing I say is interesting unless it's cruel gossip

People suck sometimes. Maybe you should change school next year. You can make new friends there. I didn't have many friends in high school because I was too shy. I still am but less than before. I met some cool people at uni.

I'm changing school next year anyway, so it'll be good. But at the same time, when I changed school after 7th grade (in Norway we change school after 7th grade and after 10th grade) I thought it would be different. But it just got worse. Teenagers are jerks, at least the ones in my class

And I just found out today that my mom is getting married again And I don't really want her to. But I don't want to be the cruel kid who tells her that she can't get married...

It's a difficult age. Some teenagers are jerks, stubborn or selfish. It will get better. It's just a phase. Everybody has to go through it.

My parents are still married, so I can't really give you advice. But I don't think I would have liked it if one of them got married again. I think most people wouldn't like it. The most important thing is your mother's happiness, I guess.

[valli]

  Barbara said:

My parents are still married, so I can't really give you advice. But I don't think I would have liked it if one of them got married again. I think most people wouldn't like it. The most important thing is your mother's happiness, I guess.

Yeah, I guess I'll just have to live with it. I'm leaving in three years anyway, so it's not really a big deal. They have a child together, so it won't be much of a difference if they got married.

  Barbara said:

It's a difficult age. Some teenagers are jerks, stubborn or selfish. It will get better. It's just a phase. Everybody has to go through it.

Do that phase start when you're 8 or 9? Because that's when it started for me. I had a best friend and a good friend. They couldn't stand each other and made me choose between them. I was the good kid, so I couldn't and they both left me and didn't want to be friends with me. And the worst part is that they became best friends after that. Since that I have never been able to trust anyone. I always think that they have a plan to humiliate me

[Barbara]

  valli said:

  Barbara said:

My parents are still married, so I can't really give you advice. But I don't think I would have liked it if one of them got married again. I think most people wouldn't like it. The most important thing is your mother's happiness, I guess.

Yeah, I guess I'll just have to live with it. I'm leaving in three years anyway, so it's not really a big deal. They have a child together, so it won't be much of a difference if they got married.

  Barbara said:

It's a difficult age. Some teenagers are jerks, stubborn or selfish. It will get better. It's just a phase. Everybody has to go through it.

Do that phase start when you're 8 or 9? Because that's when it started for me. I had a best friend and a good friend. They couldn't stand each other and made me choose between them. I was the good kid, so I couldn't and they both left me and didn't want to be friends with me. And the worst part is that they became best friends after that. Since that I have never been able to trust anyone. I always think that they have a plan to humiliate me

If your mother and her future husband already have a child, that means they're already living together. So, it's not like he's a complete stranger. He's not your dad but that doesn't mean he isn't nice.

They probably weren't good enough to be your friends. They shouldn't have made you choose between them. You can have things in common with one person and other things in common with someone else. I actually like having friends who are different. As long as they didn't have to see each other, they shouldn't have had a problem with you being friends with the both of them.

You play sports, don't you? Maybe you can make friends there. You might not see them at school but at least you would have friends. And you've got brothers and sisters, right? If they're in the same school as you, you could hang out with them and their friends. I get along with my friend's sister because she always used to hang out with us. I like some of my sister's friends too.